In October 2016, Hammer received a Facebook message from a young Bulgarian woman named Effie asking him to endorse a charity supporting children with special needs. (Hammer has an autistic cousin.) After his attempts at gleaning more information from her about the organization were met with meandering responses, Hammer says, he told Effie that he would have to desist communicating with her because “having casual conversations with a girl online would make my life really difficult.” To this, he says, Effie responded, “I used to work in a dungeon, and I totally understand how discretion works.” (An inquiry sent to the charity for which Effie claimed to volunteer was not answered.)
The pair met in Los Angeles and began what he describes as a torrid affair. According to Hammer, what Effie would later describe as rape was a “scene” that the two planned out meticulously in advance via conversations over Facebook Messenger. Hammer claims that these messages, which he had since deleted, would exonerate him, and that his lawyers have tried to subpoena them from Meta to no avail. “If I still had these messages, I would have been able to put this to bed in .5 seconds,” he says. “This alleged rape was a scene that was her idea. She planned all of the details out, all the way down to what Starbucks I would see her at, how I would follow her home, how her front door would be open and unlocked and I would come in, and we would engage in what is called a ‘consensual non-consent scene,’ CNC.” Hammer says that, while he and Effie had sex multiple times, “we only had one, scheduled CNC event,” and that Effie introduced him to the practice.
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According to Hammer, his affair with Effie lasted until the summer of 2017. Hammer says that while he never considered the relationship to be anything other than sexual in nature, Effie harbored hopes of his leaving Chambers for her. “I think she just realized that my marriage was always going to be in the way of us being together,” he says, “and so she called me one day and said, ‘I’m going to tell your wife.’” Hammer pleaded with Effie to reconsider, and after arguing back and forth, she decided to wait 24 hours so that he could warn Chambers in advance.
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“I don’t like who I’m becoming,” Hammer confessed to his wife. “I’m fucked up every single day, all day. I’m miserable, I’m unhappy, and I’m having an affair. And I don’t know how to stop any of these things, and I can’t do this alone. I need your help.” Chambers, he said, “took it really poorly, which is fair.” And things only got worse, according to Hammer, when Effie forwarded Chambers some of the salacious messages he had sent to her over the previous year.
Сообщение отредактировал Sky: 04 февраля 2023 - 11:26